Im in search for a friend in hopes to leading to a relationship. I am chubby so if your looking for a tooth pick thats def not me. I work have a job,car etc. And I would like for you to have the same. Im looking for someone who is willing to take time to get to know me for me. It would be nice to find someone who is very patient and understanding.
Whos not just going to leave when things get tough. I prefer Hispanic women. Im not into or smoking. And I wont mess with you if your into that sorry thats just my preference.
I do like my women to have meat on them. So thick,chubby,bbw are encouraged to respond. I love to eat if you know what I mean lolease be of age.
And please dont send me an asking for a picture if you havent sent one yourself. You dont have to send a picture right away if your not comfortable.
So send me a message about yourself and we can go from there. Also please be single, I wont mess with anyone who is involved or married or Bi-curious. Be ready to voice verify as well. Not right away but will need to too within a timely matter.
These are my preferences and what Im into. Im only interested in what I listed. Ages All Latin Women please apply: Extended version of these rules. Do you want a place that is non judgmental where you can be yourself, ask for advice or just vent the daily frustrations of life? Are you bored and looking for a connection? NSA vs just getting an escort self. I want to know what y'all think the difference is. Last time I was on the app looking, most sugar daddies wanted someone to pretty much be a full girlfriend experience which is what I like doing, full dates and we also have sex.
We go out and do lots of things together, and grow together, and chill together, and the relationship isn't focused on just sex.
Sex is just a part of it. Yes, pretty much just a dinner and then sex. Maybe sometimes we'd watch some Netflix first but the main focus is sex, not a relarionship. How is that different than just hiring an escort really?
That isn't what I think of as a SR, but maybe I'm not in the majority here. They offer you dinner?? Unfortunately SA has migrated towards Tindr with Trinkets and perhaps repetition while at the same time the escort world was forced to abandon ship backpage, craigslist, etc.
Escort - normally involves defined financial compensation , selection process focused on expectation of surviving the encounter unharmed or damaged. No commitment to longevity nor expectation of exclusivity. SA has not helped with its relentless promotion to the younger SB with the thinly disguised message that you have more liquidity than you bank statement shows.
As one Pot 21 yo student at highly respected school that I met with a year ago expressed it - My friends and I get frequent offers from guys to join them for a weekend skiing, sailing, Vegas etc. The clear expectation is that we will have sex with them.
I would rather spend evenings with a vetted, older gentleman from whom I can learn and have the freedom to travel with my girlfriends to Paris Rome Hawaii, Coachella etc. Escorts are not naive and wont have sex before discussing the terms of an arrangement. Escorts wont text between dates. Men dont want to be 1 of 5 clients of the day. These are my assumptions. A "bulk discount" so to speak by agreeing to see them regularly.
If you find a real connection it's a different story, but in my experience that's more rare. Sugar relationships are odd. I think Grandma nailed most of it. So not so one sided as we all might believe. If she weighs the same as a duck IMHO you're trying box escorting and sugaring based on some aspects and predefined notions of both.
Which is kind of a false dichotomy. So I'll probably lose all respect on here for this , but I met a SB for just one night. I was traveling and we developed a friendship decided to meet and whatever developed developed. Because of geography we may or may not ever see each other again and I think we're ok with that.
From my view it was an extremely short SR. I care for her, I think she's incredible, I plan on maintaining our friendship and if she ever needed anything I'd see what I can do to help her.
What I'm getting at is johns don't care about escorts, they don't know their or care what their name, they don't care what they think or feel, the woman is just sex toy. Escorts don't give a shit about johns, they shut down get used, collect money and go. SRs on the other hand have a level of caring, compassion, and concern. It's friendship or more. The intimacy is two people sharing themselves with each other. I've used SA to find a very-likely-one-time SB when traveling for business.
They know this is the situation. We go out to dinner, or go to a concert or something akin to that, etc. Other than the I-slept-with-her-only-once aspect of it, that doesn't feel escorty to me.
It's funny you say that - because I still have a couple of escorts I'm friends with on FB and occasionally keep in touch with. I'm out of the country anyway. That's just how it is. Most guys on Tinder are just looking for a "free escort". A lot of guys on SA don't want to spend the effort on full dates. Do you mean "hookup"? The problem is Back Page got shut down and escorts flocked to SA.
They are conditioning men to expect pay to play. They dip a toe in the bowl to pay for a concert or something and then get out. So it takes time to find a real SB or SD. This makes a lot of sense. I have a POT that'll text on and off and has been for months, we've never worked anything out since I've always been out of town or when I'm around she ghosts.
Your statement made something click, she may only reach out when she has a need and runs down a list of "daddies" and whomever responds first gets her.
This is relatively common. I've messaged women on SA and texted, and decided they aren't for me. They come 'round every once in a while, clearly when they need an infusion of cash. I also had one relatively steady SB who broke it off because she found a full-time 'real' boyfriend. Fair enough, and I wished her well. Well when a semester started she texted me looking for a one-timer.
As much as I was attracted to her, that particular scene didn't interest me in the least! One thing that really confuses me about this forum is why so many people focus on labels and it seems everyone thinks that their definitions of these labels are the only correct definitions.
I understand that SA has to deny that escorts use their service because of legal risks. The proof is in the pudding. If you get what you desire out of a relationship then it is a success but I see no purpose in using ill defined labels. You or she could disappear tomorrow.