What I remember is the dawning sense of power, the realization that I could order up sex, when desired, as easily and quickly as a pizza. He came to my dorm room and we rode up in the elevator together. I never even had to bother to put on shoes. I posted and responded to many ads over the 17 years since that first casual encounter.
Near-immediate, easy, anonymous, it served as a playground for my not-insubstantial id. All manner of perversions were laid bare, all interest groups represented. Men sought women, women sought men, multiple men sought men, couples sought women and all other permutations one could calculate. It was an underbelly of sorts, but a beloved one. Where else could a woman decide she might like to engage in some light bondage at 2 a. Even as technology advanced and others moved on to Tinder and other apps, I remained loyal to Craigslist, preferring the anonymity of the platform as well as the democratic base of people attracted by the free, low-commitment interface.
The message users receive if they attempt to click on any of the personals sections reads:. When I came, she jerked me off all over the floor, and then smeared it all around with her shoes.
Her husband thanked me, and they left. I followed a few minutes later. I have more stories, but I think I've taken up enough of your day, If you even read this far Thank You Reddit, for allowing me this walk down memory lane. I have met four folks offa CL personals, two of which resulted in sexytime. Exactly what he said he'd be, cute, great time in bed, stayed for a couple hours, etc. The other--older than I expected, not good in bed, and he seriously ran out the door without his coat afterward, like the hounds of hell were after him.
I do not know what was goin on but it felt nasty as hell, even as I was not thrilled with him. Perhaps his wife needed him home. Every once in a while when I'm longing and looking I will post a CL ad, collect a bizillion responses, and then not really want to answer any of them back cause they all seem kinda gnarly. If you are trying to meet up with a guy, you have a very good chance of it being the real deal, only thing to worry about is outdated photos not matching up with what you encounter in person.
If you are trying to meet up with a couple, you have a somewhat likely chance of it being real. If you are trying to meet up with a chick I've made some long-term friends with the women I've met on Casual Encounters.
But I also met a bunch that when I actually met them in person, I realized they were fucking nuts meth addicts, women who had 15yo photos and denied it, one woman who wouldn't stop talking about how ghosts stalk her family, a woman who neglected to tell me she was 7 months pregnant, etc. I'm in a non-monogamous marriage My wife has had a boyfriend for the last couple of years, so I'd go on CL looking for entertainment. My wife took more offense than I did when she found out the women had lied to me about careers, age, etc.
Hey there, if you don't mind me asking, how did you go about starting a non-monogamous marriage? It's somethign I could see myself in the future, but I had some questions I was discussing it with my girlfriend and these were the things that came out of it: Did you start by swinging or something?
Or was it decided from the start? He probably had, but adultery is far more common that polygamy. It was a reasonable question, if asked in a more accusatory tone than was required see triggerhoppe's comment. I've had around 10 partners from craigslist since None have been dangerous, all but one have been enjoyable.
He gave me directions to his hotel near the airport with details all the way down to which set of stairs to walk up. The level of detail creeped me out, so I chose my own route through the hotel.
Wanted to know why I didn't go the way he described. It was an odd start to the evening. He had thrown a towel over the desk lamp which provided some soft mood lighting. He was was older than me, buff, and looked Mediterranean. Looked just like his pictures, actually. He went in immediately for a kiss, but I pulled away. Just sex, I told him. He had a huge cock that I just wanted to play around with, bury my face in, and generally enjoy. He pretty much just wanted to stick it in my butt and I obliged.
He positioned me like he wanted and tried sticking it in. Virgin ass can be awfully hard to penetrate and this guy wasn't being patient at all. He asked if this was my first time. But I'm sure he could tell otherwise. He managed to get inside me and started thrusting mercilessly. I accidentally kicked a lamp off the bedside table with my involuntary flailing - had never had such an awesome sexual encounter.
He came, but I didn't. He politely blew me to completion. I cleaned up, dressed, and was ready to leave. I commented on his folded scrubs sitting in his suitcase. Asked if he's a doctor or a nurse. Instead of being honest, he conflated his job into being some high-risk nuclear assignment. Before leaving, he said he'd call me when he comes into town in a month.
He never called or emailed. I was out of town and staying in a hotel. My first arranged hookup fell through at the last minute. I was so horny and didn't just want to crank one out, so I started looking through the 'runner-up' emails from my posting. I found an email from a guy who just sent a picture of his cock, claiming it was his only photo.
He showed up within 30 minutes. I let him into the room. I told him I was only down for oral. He gave me the worst head, was constantly hurting my dick with his teeth, was gagging on my average sized penis. I told him enough was enough. I'll just jack off. He whipped out his dick and it was as large as promised.
Biggest one I've ever seen. Too bad it never got hard. Not even a little. I agreed to try some mutual masturbation. He jacked me off to completion, but I never got him hard.
I then asked him to leave. Met up with a guy who was advertised as being my age. When I met him for the first time, we both realized we had met a conference the previous year. He worked at a store in my hometown and it was beyond awkward when I went through the checkout stand with my mom. He tried his best to play it cool, but my face couldn't have been any redder. We still hook up to this day. Posted an ad, got a response from a cute Asian girl my age mid 20s at the time , previously lesbian, first time with a guy.
I forget how the first rendezvous went down, but we were basically FWB for a month or two. Responded to an ad by a chick interested in pegging a guy, and asking him to buy the dildo since she was a poor college student. You can fill in the details.
Posted an ad, got a response from another mid 20s girl leaving the city soon. We went for drinks, she came back to my place, played hide-the-salami, and she left. She was kind of uncomfortable with the whole thing though, and I didn't feel like pursuing a second time. I got hundreds--literally hundreds--of responses. I was able to narrow it down by grammar, a general feeling of chemistry, and photos.
I ended up with five candidates, and made dates to meet them all. I was expecting a year-old guy who kept himself up through swimming. What I got was a year-old guy with a large pot belly. He was so different from his pictures that I didn't even recognize him. On the other hand, he spotted me immediately. He smiled and I saw the clincher: They protruded vertically from his gums, overlapped, had jagged edges.
It went beyond crooked. He was a human shredder. The caves between his teeth were harboring god knows how much partially digested food, and his breath smelled like a corpse. I prayed that he was not going to be quite as fat as I feared, but he was. I still don't know how he managed to look normal in his pictures, because he was very, very obese. Did not fuck him either.
I know that an emotional connection is not important for a casual encounter, but one of the guys I picked wanted to be short-term friends as well. He seemed smart and funny and I was lonely in a new city, so we decided to hang out before we got down to business. It turned out that I was way too sex-positive and weird for him. He actually went so far as to say, "I didn't know girls could be as strange as you.
Although the idea of using some conservative shmuck for his cock appealed to me, it turned out that I didn't hate myself enough to endure more of his continual insults about my personality. But if you must pursue the internet route, just meet in public so you can bail if needed.
You have a very easy, "I actually don't feel comfortable doing this" excuse. When I was 21, I met a 44 year old divorcee with two daughters my age. She was attractive and really nice. We met and had lunch at a bagel shop and decided to meet up the next day. She came over and we hung out for a while and had the best sex of my life. The showing up on her doorstep makes it pretty much just as bad as stalking. If it weren't for that I'd say he was just persistent and not taking hints. I'm a woman, 34 now.
I met a few people through CE section, one on the dscussion board and one i can't recall, i think it was originally through a platonic listing? I will preface my experience by saying I'm a fat girl with huge boobs but I have few problems taking attractive whoo-ha pics and I've never been dishonest with anyone about what they were getting.
First of all, the W4M listings in our area get culled pretty aggressively, I think by spammers reporting other ads since you will see the guys who list talking about how they can never meet real women through the site. Second, if you're a chick, every CL listing is a CE. I don't think any of the guys posting or responding to the w4m or m4w really wants anything else.
I was pretty proud of the catch and the sex was OK but he tried to tell me he was leaving immediately for active duty which i'm pretty sure was a lie and refused to speak to me again.
I didn't play it as cool as i should have but it was the first time. Didn't look like his pic, was in his mids. I felt trapped because i knew him a little better. I did it anyway because i didn't want to seem totally shallow but then he ignored me the rest of the night and watched TV. I never spoke to him again. He seemed nice enough, a little older. He lived about an hour away which caused problems getting together but he texted me regularly for a few weeks and seemed interested in more.
I drove to his house a few times late at night and shagged him but he was waaaaay more interested in anal than me. About a month in, he stops contacting me pretty suddenly.
Doesn't respond to my texts. About 2 wks later, i find out he has a new girl friend by facebook stalking him. We've been friends about 3 years but have only met in person once! We have good intellectual conversations but I found out several months later he was married so I tread pretty carefully to not encourage flights of fancy on either one of our parts about it going much further. Kink master I've had sex with only once but IM dirty chat with semi-regularly for about a year. He's OK but lives with his parents post divorce and I am looking for a "real" relationship these days and he's not.
I gay pre-op ftm have had many good encounters off of CL casual encounters. I normally IM or have a quick public chat with a person that answers my ad before I get naked with them. I have found that if I can have a decent conversation with them then the sex is at least good, if not great to excellent. Do you get a lot of chasers? I always advertise as FtM in my cl ads. If you want to put up an ad you don't have to go through with meeting any of the people that respond to it.
Just be very clear in your ad what you are looking for and be safe. I meet very very few of the guys that answer my ad because they are either creepy or think "pussy is pussy". You can try to get a recurrent fb type of thing where it is just one guy instead of just a lot of one night stands.
Out of curiosity as a straight guy, what is sex with a FtM like? Is it appropriate for straight guys, who like more masculine women, to respond to a FtM, is almost more my question? I don't mean to offend, but when you say " gay pre-op ftm " I would assume you are looking for chicks, not dudes. Am I missing something?
You are missing something. Since I am ftm female to male I consider myself male. Since I said that I am gay, then that would mean me a man is attracted to men. Ok, I was not sure if gay applied to pre-op or to the ftm bit. Sorry if it was a weird question, but I was honestly curious. I typically do whatever me and the guy want to do in the bedroom. I thought sending you pics from her porno's would have given the fact that she did porn away but meh.
Lucky you either way. I've had a few 'ltr' encounters that resulted in first date sex. It always feels dirty afterwards and I'm turned off the prospect for a few weeks. Sex is awesome, and sometimes people just click.
I think the majority of the dates I've been on I'm a dude have resulted in sex, usually, if you ask me, because I don't generally act like I'm going to get laid when I go out on a date and women respond to that. Admittedly I don't know what other guys are like, or if something sinister was involved, but if you had sex with him on the first date I bet there was a good reason. My gay friend we'll call him Pat had a crazy experience just a few months ago.
He used Grindr which is a social networking site for the gay sexy times. He had used the site successfully before and the results where always satisfactory. He started a conversation with a guy who claimed to be a 25 year old physical trainer.
He sent Pat both nude pics and in pictures of himself in social situations. Pat then checked Facebook for the name he'd been given on Grinder and it checked out. The guy was actually friends with some of Pat's friends so he thought for sure he was legit. So he got his address and went to his apartment around 9 o'clock to meet up. He was instructed via chat to let himself in, walk into the bedroom and remove his clothing.
So he wandered in. All the lights were off and it seemed like no-one was home but he thought it was just part of some sort of role-play. He went into the bedroom and removed his clothing as instructed. He started to get a little freaked when this mystery man quit responding too his texts. After about 15 minutes Pat decided to put his clothes back on and gtfo. As he was exiting the bedroom he turned on a few lights to gather his things.
That's when a man in uniform busted through the door and told Pat to lay face down on the floor. As Pat was recounting the story I was expecting some sort of "To Catch a Predator" situation but it turns out this was the apartment security guard. He threatened to call the police but never did and Pat eventually talked the guy into letting him leave.
Pat drove from there to where I and some friends were having some drinks. When he told us the story we all started doing detective work. It turns out the pictures were BS and the mutual friends on Facebook had no clue who this dude was. We all came to the conclusion that the security guard was some sort of Homophobitroll and that Pat is a fucking retard. He could have been raped or murdered but Pat never called the police out of embarrassment. I'm a single moderately fat kinky chick who loves sex so Craigslist has been good to me for the most part.
As any girl on CL knows, you will sort through pages and pages of stupid ass emails for any posting but, unlike guys, we usually have some genuine people in there even if they might not be exactly what you are looking for. We did that for like a week and by the time we were able to meet up that next weekend, I was pretty much ready to jump that dude unless he was completely not how he seemed online.
So, we met up and he was even more adorable and this tall slightly awkward sort of blushing shy which just made me go crazy with lust. We quickly went back to his apartment and I pretty much attacked him, pushing him down on his bed and undressing and attempting to maked out with him simultaneously. He was really into me being aggressive but was also really enthusiatic about trying to please me; a perfect combination.
We 69ed as I gave him a blowjob but I wouldn't let him touch himself or me while I did it. I made him go down on me well, he didn't really need to be made but whatever and ending up grinding on his face at one point. After some other stuff, I finally let me fuck me and we pretty much both went crazy at that point. We feel asleep afterwards and then when we woke up, we had a little lazy cuddle fuck that was not as frenzied but quite nice.
I went home bouncingly happy and glowing with freshly fucked contentedness. We met up four or five more times over the next six months but after that he ended uphaving to move away for his job. I still haven't found anyone to replace him and his puppy dog sort of eagerness but oh well. I'm a little disappointed by the lack of awesome or horrifying stories, though.
Upvote for trying, man. Here's hoping you get laid! I've had more than I'd like to admit. The short answer is that I tend to have pretty good intuition when it comes to feeling people out online. If you know yourself and can read the person well enough, things should be okay. I met a girl from a CS ad on new years eve. It actually turned out very well, she wasn't any more crazy than any other females I know.
We had sex once a week for about a month, then I realized I don't like meaningless sex. She talks to me on FB all the time still. The Return of the Curse of the Ghost of the Craigslist killer. I've many guys, I've had great luck, including meeting one who I fucked for about 3 years, lots of fun, great guy, still in touch off and on. In quite a few of the meetings, we've sat down, chatted, and I said "I'm not feeling the vibe, good night," and left.
There have been some real weirdos. But mostly great guys. If you're not prepared for unexpected, don't meet strangers via CL. That should be obvious. That means it can be a trap, or it can end well. I see I'm a little late here, but so many people have posted awkward or bad stories, I just wanted to chime in with a good one. I met a guy I'm a girl through CL a few months ago.
We've been hanging out and having NSA sex since then. Best sex I've ever had, all the fun bits of a relationship, but none of the drama. We have dinner sometimes, late night booty calls others. It's been a fun few months. I'd recommend giving CL another go, but just know you're going to have to deal with lots and lots of spam.
I made a date once with a Canadian acrobat He added me on facebook and turned out to not be my type anyway. I also posted a platonic thing once when I moved to a new city. Got a number of relatively sane responses, and ended up having a beer with a Spanish guy in the park.
We had a nice chat, but there wasn't any friendship vibe, so we left it at that. One of the other responses I got was a fortysomething guy who kept calling me "interesting" -- I never met up with him, and thankfully he actually backed off on gmail chat when I told him I didn't want any more contact.
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Well, it was certainly interesting reading all these stories. Want to add to the discussion? That sounds like a fine deal. It's doesn't hurt if you use lots of Vaseline. I was way off! I was an 18 year old female, first year university student.
I still haven't recovered. I am guessing this guy is who the forever alone meme is modeled after? I would never, ever take my shoes off in a girl's dorm room. I was so close. Next time Gadget, next time. Everyone is thinking it.
I broke my back because of a drunk driver. Everytime i see a drunk driver now.. Call me a dick but FUCK you if you drive drunk. If she was Asian and old, it'd be the perfect storm. Jersey drivers are the worst. However, she did have a lovely cat. I'd almost go back there to see the cat. Better man than I. All in all a good experience and I would definitely do it again. I find you in the best of threads.. We know that's not true. I know that an emotional connection is not important for a casual encounter, but one of the guys I picked wanted to be short-term friends as. You HAVE to fuck me in the ass In doing so, she gave him a pulled hamstring, which brought the date to a painful end. We undressed each .